Many
of the things kids do these days are just variations of the same
things we used to do when we were kids. They seem different because,
now, they often involve new technology, athletic skills and have new
things to make decisions about. Some things that we used to suffer
from have been identified and solutions found. In the end, kids are
just kids and want to have fun.
Many of the ways kids like to have fun involve
things that have been around since mankind appeared. Throwing things
has always been and always will be a favorite pastime, as has
swimming, running, climbing, and jumping off of the highest possible
place. Competition seems to be an instinctive characteristic in
humans and kids have always enjoyed seeing who was the fastest,
strongest and bravest. The activity and interaction that competition
generates helps children to be healthy, develop social skills, and
learn how to face challenges that they will experience when they
become adults.
Among the many challenges that children face as
they mature is acne. Acne, it seems, has been around as long as
running and jumping. While many advances have been made in acne
treatment, it seems to affect children based more on their physical
make up than anything else. Granted, there are things like diet and
cleanliness that reduce its severity, but some children may have one
or two pimples their entire lives while others have severe
conditions that last well into adulthood. The good thing is that,
while acne used to be viewed as having something to do with
cleanliness, society has learned more and tends to accept acne as a
normal occurrence. Children, now, tend to laugh and joke when they
get a zit instead of being ashamed.
Among the other things that have helped
children are the early recognitions of poor vision, ADHD, and
dyslexia. As late as 40 years ago, children would spend half of
their school years struggling because they couldn't see the
blackboard or as a result of not being able to visually follow along
as teachers pointed out things on the board. Today, very few
children make it past the first grade without seeing an eye
chart.
Most recently, ADHD has been recognized as a
disability. It appears that most people suffer from this
physiological disorder, which has to do with the amount of chemicals
in the brain along with the efficiency of its receptors, to some
degree. In addition to the obvious inability to pay attention or
perform boring tasks for other than short periods of time, other
symptoms like obsessiveness, impulsivity, joy seeking, driving fast,
aggressiveness, danger taking, the inability to think ahead, and the
inability to apply one's self are now recognized. The recognition of
the disability is so new that effective treatment is still in the
works. The drugs being used for treatment have dangerous side
effects that can lead to depression, heart failure, and even
suicide. Alternative methods of treatment, having to do with the
timely application of healthy physical exercise interlaced with
short spurts of high educational content, are being studied. The
good thing is that many kids are now recognized as disabled as
opposed to wild, uncontrollable, and bad. They are no longer being
pushed out of the mainstream to dark corners where failure is the
only option. If your children are struggling with ADHD, remind them
that Einstein and Freud are both believed to have overcome the
disability.
Most
of all, remind your children to have fun. The time will come soon
enough when their fun will have to be too often set aside in favor
of responsibility. They don't have to be responsible now, they are
just kids. So, let the birthday cakes, parties, movies, dates,
laughter, and balls roll.